I never believed that one gets into counting how many dawns and dusks the other person has witnessed as a criterion of surrendering one's heart.It had never occurred to me as well that love is a domain of rationality. I never tried to force myself to reason out as to why I preferred red rose from the pink one. Nobody 'belongs' to nobody. It must be mutual interest or what we call 'love' that shall bind us. Like wise it is no wonder if one parts for lack of it or should one fail to get its full taste. Haven't I have heard somebody say 'Love is a condition of the mind; when the mind is out of condition'. Cheers!